Free Social Story About Anger and Disappointment - Printable PDF

"YaYa and the Green Plate" is a free social story about anger and disappointment that helps children learn about accepting no, coping with frustration, and what friends do when someone is having a really hard time.

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Skills this social story covers:

  • Recognizing and naming big feelings like anger, frustration, and embarrassment.
  • Learning to calm down after an emotional meltdown.
  • Accepting "no" and coping when things don't go your way.
  • How to be a good friend when someone around you is upset.
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Skills this social story covers:

  • Recognizing and naming big feelings like anger, frustration, and embarrassment.
  • Learning to calm down after an emotional meltdown.
  • Accepting "no" and coping when things don't go your way.
  • How to be a good friend when someone around you is upset.

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When children explode over something that seems small to us, it's because the disappointment is real, and they don't yet have the tools to get through it on their own.

This story shows what support looks like when emotions are big.

  • Children see what a meltdown looks like from the inside and outside
  • They learn that friends don't need perfect words, just presence
  • They discover that you can still be upset and still move forward
Being madBeing mad
Cooling downCooling down
EmbarrassmentEmbarrassment
Cheering upCheering up

Three stages of getting through a meltdown

  • Safe - the child knows they still belong
  • Calm - the body comes down
  • Understand - now we can talk about what happened

Learning to handle disappointment is one of the hardest things a child has to do. This story helps children recognize these stages in a safe, relatable way. So when big feelings come, they know there's a path through.

Bear feeling calm and proud

How to Use:

  1. Print or open on tablet
  2. Read together when everyone is calm
  3. Review the story together and practice how to respond
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File size: 13 MBPages: 15 pages
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Social story resources for anger, disappointment, and emotional regulation

This page includes a free anger social story PDF, a frustration social story, and a calm down social story for kids learning emotional regulation.

YaYa and the Green Plate is a social story about a child who has a meltdown when she doesn't get the plate she wants. This anger social story follows her journey through anger, frustration, and embarrassment - and shows how her friends help her find her way back without lectures or magic words. It teaches emotional regulation, accepting disappointment, and peer support during difficult moments.
This story is designed for children aged 3 to 7. It uses simple language, expressive illustrations, and relatable characters that resonate with toddlers, preschoolers, and early elementary students who are still developing emotional regulation skills.
Most social stories about anger tell children what to do: take deep breaths, count to ten, use your words. This story shows what happens when the anger is already out - when the scream has already happened and the mess is already on the table. It doesn't teach a formula. It shows a real emotional journey and how the people around a child can help without needing to be perfect.
Parents, teachers, therapists, and anyone working with young children. It's effective at home for bedtime reading, in the classroom during circle time, and in therapy as a tool for discussing emotional regulation, peer support, and coping with disappointment.
Yes. The story uses clear visual sequences, an emotions guide with 9 labeled feelings, and a predictable narrative structure that works well for visual learners. Children on the autism spectrum or with ADHD often benefit from social stories that show - rather than tell - what emotional regulation looks like in real social situations.
The emotions page shows YaYa's face expressing 9 different feelings: Disappointed, Overwhelmed, Mad, Angry, Cool Down, Embarrassed, Cheered Up, Brave, and Happy. Children can point to how YaYa feels at different moments in the story - and over time, start pointing to how they feel themselves. It works as a standalone visual tool for identifying emotions.
The story follows three natural stages of recovery after a meltdown. First, Safe: the child sees that their friends aren't angry and haven't left - they still belong. Second, Calm: the body needs time to come down through water, cleanup, and quiet presence. Third, Understand: only once the child is calmer does anyone talk about what happened. This mirrors how emotional regulation actually works in young children.
Yes. YaYa and the Green Plate is a free resource from The Catbears for home, classroom, or clinical use. Download, print, and share.
Read it during calm moments - not during a meltdown. Once or twice a week is enough to build familiarity. Over time, the characters and their responses become reference points your child recognizes: "Remember what Bear did when YaYa was upset?" That's when the story starts working in real life.
Yes. YaYa and the Green Plate is available in both English and Hebrew.
Social stories are a well-established tool in education and therapy. They help children rehearse emotional situations when they're calm, so they have a reference point when the real moment arrives. This story won't stop meltdowns overnight - but over time, it gives children and the people around them a shared language and a model for what recovery looks like.

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